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This does not match my experiences at all. But first, let me tell you where I am coming from: before the word autism became popular, my type was called geek, nerd, engineer, programmer. Mr Spock, Dr. House, reason-and-logic.

This might be interpreted as low emotional intelligence or empathy, but that is not sure, whenever there is something important, I can put myself into other people's shoes and figure out analytically, based on the circumstances, how they feel.

It is the small emotions that don't work well: why do people want me to greet them and ask them how they are before I tell them what I want?

In that case I cannot put them into their shoes because I certainly do not need that.

Maybe it just boils down to the experience of a bullied kid. When you were hurt a lot, then small rudeness, simply the lack of warmth does not disturb you anymore, and it is hard to see why it disturbs others.

meika loofs samorzewski's avatar

Hypermobility? my ED survivor extroverted daughter with dyslexia.

Looking at the main lists under Social Affect factor and Repetitive Behaviors, I don't do any of the latter, but all of the former (but I don't get gestures...??), fairly mildly compare to those with a diagnosis of autism. openness is high, and only get anxiety in approaching a transitional space for the first time (knocking on a door at some party I think I have been invited to... I have but that is how it feels). And slow with empathy but then it can be overwhelming at times.

The most interesting topic mentioned above,"for me" is monotropism: https://whyweshould.substack.com/p/monotropism

The schizotypals have an unalterable special project of themselves, it's beyond a mere monotropic interest (that may pass depending on openness) as it dives down into the singularity of themselves, some more soft grandiose and silky covert narcissisms are a veneer compared to that.

Thanks for you work here.

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